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Baby Clothes Hacks

 
Eli is 11mo old. Here's the semi-unintuitive stuff we've learned with regards to clothing him.

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  • Zippers. Love 'em. Baby clothes come in all sorts of different connecting pieces, e.g. snapping down the middle, snapping down the legs, and all sorts of other snapping. The problem is snapping sucks, especially when the baby is wriggly. With the zipper, you just shove in their legs, zip up and you're done.

  • Footsies. Babies aren't supposed to sleep with anything in their cribs, but they can get cold. So what we've converged to doing is dressing him in a fleece with footsies with a onesie underneath. If the pajamas don't have footsies, then their feet get really cold, and so you end up having to put socks on them. Not only are socks annoying but they have a tendency to come off in the middle of the night. And even if they don't, without the footsies the leg can ride up and expose their calves.

  • Snurgle. For the first few months we swaddled Eli, in what we came to call the Snurgle. Swaddling really worked for us.

  • Onesies. They're awesome. There is a tendency to buy lots of different types of clothes, i.e. overalls, shirts, pullovers, etc. because they're all cute. And that of course is true. However, the onesie has a special appeal because they can just wear it as is and it classifies an outfit. Additionally, you can layer over it (pants/shirts) and if they get that dirty (food/whatever) you can take it off but don't have to take off everything. Finally, it keeps their belly covered, whereas if they just wore a shit it would not.

  • More onesies. We've like the Gerber and Carter ones the best. You can buy the white ones in the multi-packs, which we routinely use as a base layer. Note, however, that the Gerber ones run small. You also have to be careful about the head openings being too big (with any brand). Finally, we've found that if you take the head size into account, you can get bigger sizes and they work just fine.

  • Changing with the bottle. Changing clothes can be a pain. I've taken to making Eli a bottle first, and letting him eat while I change him. He is then calm throughout. This technique only started working after he could hold his bottle though, at around 6mo or so (I forget!). 

  • Sizing. The sizes vary so much from brand to brand it is somewhat ridiculous. It's to the point where you can't really trust them at all. Additionally, the width of the clothes varies a ton. Eli's really skinny, so that has a big impact. Bottom line is if you have to really look at the item beyond the size.

  • More sizing. We bought a ton of 6-12mo clothes, which is the standard size. But really at 6mo they didn't fit Eli because they seem to be for more on the 12mo side even though they say 6-12mo on them. So we had to go back out and get a bunch of 9mo stuff, which is harder to come by.

  • Stores. We found a lot of good stuff and good prices at Target, Carters, and Costco.

  • Outside fleece. We bought a really thick outside fleece at Target that was proved invaluable. We put him in it in the late fall and early winter when we went outside for walks. He was warm and sometimes it lulled him to sleep. It covered his hands and feet and had a hood.
  • Hooded sweatshirts. Sweatshirts are cute, but we were too nervous to put him to sleep in ones that had hoods.

  • Shoes. Haven't had much of a use for them :)

  • Laundry. We initially underestimated how many clothes he would go through. Between peeing, eating, and generally getting into things, we're changing him often a few times a day.

My Apple Tablet (iSlate) Use Case: Baby Following

 
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I'm planning on getting a tablet this year, probably the upcoming Apple iSlate (or whatever it will be called). [1]

My primary use case is compelling and simple, albeit not for everyone: following a baby around the house.

Eli ikes to crawl (almost walk!) around the entire house most of his waking hours. Usually this crawling is accompanied with parental entertainment. Sometimes, however, he entertains himself.

When entertaining himself, he of course still requires watching, but it is more an out-of-one-eye thing. During these times, I routinely catch up on email, RSS, HN, Twitter, and Facebook.

I currently use my Android phone (G2) and sometimes my laptop (HP Envy 13). Each is far from ideal for this use case. 

The phone is too slow and too small. It's a pain to visit sites, and even more of a pain to use to compose an email or comment. It's pretty good at reading things though, especially within a native app.

The laptop is too big. It attracts Eli, who wants to come over and bend it backwards or type on the keys. (I think that may have to do with it doubling as a video phone with his grandparents.) 

You also have to keep taking the laptop off of standby and it too difficult to put down fast, which is sometimes necessary if Eli is about to get in to trouble.

I am hopeful that the tablet form factor will be all of the good and none of the bad. I envision it fast and easy to browse on. I imagine composing with its virtual keyboard will be less effective than a laptop, but still effective enough to not be annoying. And I believe it will be easy to put down quickly. I can't wait!

[1] I'm planning on waiting until it actually goes on sale, i.e. not pre-order. At that point, it's possible that there will be other options. This happened to me with the Macbook Air. By the time I went to purchase it, I instead opted for the Lenovo ideapad U110, which eventually became my wife's laptop when I recently replaced it with the HP Envy 13.

Baby Bath Hacks

 
Eli is 10mo old. Here's the semi-unintuitive stuff we've learned with regards to bathing.

  • Babies are already clean. Eli doesn't really get that dirty, especially earlier on when he wasn't eating anything besides milk. Before he could sit up, he didn't so much like the bath, so we started doing it rather infrequently upon need, a little less than once per week. He gets dirty mostly around his diaper and mouth, which gets cleaned continually from baby wipes.

  • Get in the bath. Since being able to sit up, Eli has loved baths. However, he doesn't really like being anywhere by himself. Getting in the bath with him solves the problem and can extend bathing for a long time.

  • Fill the tub up only a few inches. When you get in the bath, you have a tendency to default to fill it up higher. But the higher you fill it up, the more unwieldy the baby becomes. If you keep it only a few inches, they can have fun and be stable at the same time. The problem is it gets cold quickly, which brings me to my next point. 

  • Separate the bath into two sections. If you get in the bath, you can position yourself in such a way where the water is divided into two sections with your body being the separator. Then you can sit near the faucet and turn on the hot water to a drip. The results are you get to be in hot water and your baby can be in warm water, and you can regulate how warm it gets while remaining comfortable. You also get to guard the faucet, which can be dangerous.

  • Water bottles. Water bottles make great bath toys. Eli likes to chew on them and likes how the water flows over his hands when you pour them out. They also can serve as parent bath toys. If you get cold in the few inches of water, you can get a bigger bottle and keep pouring it on you from the hot water section. You can also use the bottle to wash off soap from the baby's hair.

  • Toy wall. Eli likes to rotate bath toys. One activity that keeps him interested and busy is to take the bath toys and line them up on the side of the bath, making a toy wall. He will pull them down, and then you can line them up again.

  • Toy biting. Eli also likes to bite toys. But he likes it even more when his parents bite them. He loves grabbing them from our mouth and then putting them back in. Fun.

The Baby Observer Effect

 
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The observer effect in physics refers to how things can change when you observe them. That is, the very act of measurement can change the thing you are measuring.

The same thing happens with Eli, our 10mo old son. If you go into his room to observe him in his crib, and he is even slightly awake, it is pretty much disaster. He hears you, picks up his head, stands up, and starts crying out to you.

When we first looked at baby monitors, I thought video was a bit over the top, but we got one anyway. Now I'm sure it helps both him and us sleep a lot better. With just audio, we would check on him when we heard noises, even if these noises were just due to light sleeping or trying to fall asleep.

But with the video monitor, you can actually tell whether you should go up there or not. You can avoid the baby observer effect altogether. 

This works great in the morning. When he is actually waking up for good, he sits up or stands up on his own. But when it is just a passing thing, he stays laying down.

The best use is when he is going down for a nap. It often takes five to ten minutes for him to fall asleep. And he pretty much always cries out right when you put him in the crib, regardless of if he is tired or not. And you're never quite sure if you have the timing just right. 

The video monitor tells you whether he is really trying to fall asleep or just upset for getting put in his crib not fully tired. Without the video monitor, you can easily trigger the baby observer effect by going to check for yourself. 

We just got back from a vacation where we didn't have the monitor and it was a lot more difficult. We ended up keeping the door cracked slightly and peering through, but that had its own drawbacks. More sounds get through the door in that position, sometimes it cracks open more and makes a sound, and you actually have to get up and go up there.

Nobody puts baby in the corner

 
Eli's 4 1/2 months already(!) and he crawls. Not quickly mind you, but he eventually gets where he is going, sort of like a snail. Butt high in the air, slinking along, and not terribly happy about the process as much as the destination.

Our doctor told us that babies are smarter than you think they are. I thought I was heeding his advice perfectly until last night. I had just assumed (key mistake) that his attempts at crawling were in somewhat random directions.

We had been putting him to bed in a crib at night, and he would make his way over the course of the night into the corner. It looked uncomfortable with the head pressed up against the side, so we would move him back to the center. But he would find he kept finding his way back to the corner.

Yesterday when putting him in the crib for a nap, I decided to experiment and just start him in the corner. He went to sleep very quickly. 

OK, but maybe that is because he had nowhere to go. So last night we tried again to start him in the corner. He has taken to going to sleep between 6:30-7:30 and waking up around 12:30-1:30 to cry/"crankle" for a while (30-45min) only to fall back asleep for several more hours.

He woke up last night around 1:10AM. I go in there and he is along the top edge of the crib, faced in the other direction, butt up, about 1/3 of the way to the other corner. It really looked like he was making his way from one corner to the other, deliberately. 

So I picked him up and put him where he seemed like he wanted to go. And it worked!

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